Are you making enough efforts to make your marriage work?

You hear it everywhere that marriages are not as successful today as they used to be ten years back. Your parents and grandparents must have told you innumerable times that the divorce rate has gone up to unprecedented levels today. You may also have heard about many reasons behind this - busy lifestyle, changing culture, increasing stress etc. But people fail to see that the sanctity of marriage is not dependent on time or years, it only depends on the people.

There are many cities like Noida that have advanced with time but this advancement need not come at the cost of nuclear families, single parents, hatred in the society. No one wishes to stay alone by choice, then what is the reason behind this? Is there no solution to make a marriages work? Why has this become so difficult for people today? Many people and institutions are playing an important role in improving our freedom helping people in becoming independent in life. For instance, Arya Samaj mandir in Noida have enabled many young couples to get married within a few hours at a nominal cost.

Every marriage, be it a love marriage or arranged marriage, goes through some ups and downs that people involved have to handle. In an arranged marriage, you need to give time to your partner to develop understanding and respect for each other. On the contrary, people are busy blaming and complaining about small things. Time is the best teacher and can answer all your problems. This is also applicable for love marriages. At the same time, you also need to express and let the other person know in case of any problems or discomfort. Adjustment is the key to success here.

Arya Samaj marriages in Noida have also witnessed the same story. People go there for love marriage and inter caste marriage as they feel that they have the right and capability to select their life partner. But this confidence fades after sometime. A marriage changes everything aspect of life and will make your life beautiful but this comes at the cost of some sacrifice and high commitment.